What To Observe From A Man Before The First Date?

Annie Eure Author

Before going out on a date with a man for the first time, it is important to pay close attention to a man's behavior and qualities...

What To Observe From A Man Before The First Date?

When it comes to going out with a man on a first date, it's important to be selective and cautious. The first encounter may and can be the most important element to look for in the relationship. 

Have you heard the saying that "first impressions are the most important?"  Of' Course you have, and that is a very true statement, but are often overlooked by many women.

Going out with the wrong man can be a waste of time and a emotional rollercoaster, or even worse, it can be dangerous. 

So, what is the number one thing to look for in a man before saying "yes" to going out on a date with him? In my opinion, it's his level of respect for you that he has already shown.

Ladies, in this first meeting arena, we have missed it. Too many women fail to pay close attention to certain signals men send out before accepting the initial date. But it is never too late to wakeup out of dream land and look for certain characteristics. Here are some to keep in mind.

Before Accepting The Date? 

Before you even agree to meet, pay close attention to how the man treats you and others around him.

When you are talking to him, is he listening to you or fiddling around with his cell phone etc.?  Does he value your opinions and ideas when you share them? 

Remember, you have your own thoughts, opinions and ideas, that is who you are. Does he make you feel comfortable and safe, or at times are you feeling a bit unsure of his behavior? These are just some very important indicators of how much he respects you, or should be trusted.

What To Observe During The Initial Date?

During the initial meeting, continue to observe how he behaves towards you. Does he look at you to make eye contact and engage in meaningful conversation?

Does he share his desires and aspirations? Does he show interest in your life and experiences? Does he respect your boundaries and physical space?, is he all over you?

Remember, a man who respects you will treat you with kindness and consideration, not just one time, but all the time. 

He will not pressure you into doing anything you're uncomfortable doing, and that includes eating and drinking. 

He will always prioritize your safety and well-being. So, don't settle for less than you deserve. Look for a man who respects you, and you'll be on the right path towards a healthy, loving and fulfilling first encounter.

Categories: : Relationship